Gambling addiction is an obsessive and compulsive behaviour which involves a person being addicted to gambling. Whether the gambling involves betting on horse racing, casino black jack tables or slot machines, the sufferer falls victim to compulsively seeking the ‘high’ gained from gambling.
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Gambling addiction is an obsessive and
compulsive behaviour which involves a person being addicted to gambling.
Whether the gambling involves betting on horse racing, casino black jack tables
or slot machines, the sufferer falls victim to compulsively seeking the ‘high’
gained from gambling.
Why do people become addicted to
gambling? Gambling addiction is like any other
addiction. As with drug addicts and alcoholics, gambling addicts suffer from a
disease – it is incurable and progressive. Yet with treatment and a daily
programme of recovery, it can be arrested and maintained.
When a gambling addict engages in
gambling and the related behaviours that go with it, they experience an escape
from their feelings. Addicts are individuals who very often do not know how to
cope with their feelings and emotions. Thus follows behaviour to take them away
from the present, leaving their emotional capacity hollow. The disease of
addiction can be described as a “hole in the soul” – a spiritual void which
gambling addicts attempt to fill with destructive behaviour and short-term
highs.
Surprisingly, many gambling addicts
describe the pull of gambling addiction as involving losing at gambling more
than winning, although winning does provide an incredible high. The loss of
money and possessions fills them with a desperate need for hope of gaining
control again, leading them to act out compulsively on gambling behaviour over
and over again.
What happens when a person is
addicted to gambling? Unable to control their obsessive and
compulsive gambling, addicts are taken to a very dark place, which grows
increasingly worse over time. Losing families, jobs, houses, cars and all other
possessions, but mostly self respect, the gambling addict is left in a place of
total unmanageability where their life has suffered complete destruction.
Suicide is common amongst gambling addicts as they see no other solution to
their habit and loss of livelihood. Even though they want nothing more than to
be free of their compulsion to gamble, they cannot stop, they do not know how
to stop, and cannot see a life free of gambling.
How does a gambling addict recover? As with any addiction, for a person who
is a gambling addict to begin recovery, they will need to stop their gambling
behaviours in order for healing to begin. However, the problems which a
gambling addict needs to deal with are in fact, not gambling. The obsessive and
compulsive behaviours are not the problem – they are a symptom of the disease
of addiction, revealing that something is very wrong within the person. As with
drug addicts and alcoholics, the behaviour is caused by the addiction. The
behaviour is not the cause. Yet a gambling addict will need to stop the
behaviours to begin recovery, as the behaviours provide the escape from their
problems which they seek, allowing them to avoid the true problem.
Moving to other cities or locations
(known as geographicals), staying away from casinos and other places associated
with their addiction and other external elements which can be blamed may seem
the right route to wellness. But the addiction is within the gambling addict
and will surface wherever they are, no matter what they do, unless they treat
the underlying problems and issues.
Gambling addiction and rehabilitation
centres Many gambling addicts are admitted to
in-patient treatment facilities or out patient therapy programmes, depending on
the severity of their problem. One on one therapy and group therapy in a
nurturing environment is a highly successful treatment method for gambling
addiction, allowing the gambling addict to address their underlying issues.
Treatment in a rehab facility is also
beneficial as they are able to heal in a nurturing environment with other
sufferers who can provide support, insight and relate to their problems and
feelings. In a treatment facility, a gambling addict is able to learn a new way
of life, without the need to use gambling as a way of escaping their problems.
However, learning a new way of life in a
facility is just one part of recovery from gambling addiction. For a gambling
addict to maintain abstinence from gambling, a programme of recover needs to be
adhered to on a daily basis. As mentioned before, gambling addiction is an
incurable and progressive disease. It will not ‘go away; but can be arrested
and maintained through daily recovery and vigilance.
The Twelve Steps of Gamblers
Anonymous The use of a Twelve Step Programme as
used in the Twelve Step fellowship dealing withgambling addiction Gamblers Anonymous (GA), as well as intensive therapy
is a highly successful method of treating gambling addiction, whilst allowing
the sufferer the introduction to continued recovery and abstinence they need.
Relapses do happen, but with a Twelve Step programme of recovery, a gambling
addict is able to harness tools to help them cope with daily life, the problems
and feelings they have been avoiding and difficult times without reverting to
the destructive obsessive and compulsive behaviours which accompany gambling
addiction.
About the Author: Oasis
Counselling Centre is a registered in-patient treatment facility in Plettenberg Bay, South Africa which provides treatment for
gambling addiction through individual and group therapy, plus endorses a
Twelve Step programme of recovery as well as a healthy lifestyle and the tools
needed for a gambling addict to remain abstinent and regain their life back
permanently.